This article was forwarded to me by a colleague. It advises married women to be cautious of their divorced girl friends. Many a times, we tend to sympathise with these divorcees, "inviting" them to join our own family and friends, thinking that this would help them to overcome the feeling of loneliness and live their life again.
But, if our good intentions are not appreciated, things could go awry. These girl "friends" might be invading our life, including robbing our own happiness and ruin our marriage lives.
Women these days have different beliefs, they are more liberal, independent and should I say "daring". It is sad when you seek happiness from your friend's sadness... read on...
離婚女友不要來
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"好友離婚了，好心的女人普渡好友，安排好友到先生公司工作。好友心中羡慕她有一個美滿的婚姻，借一半好友的關係，在公在私都一直找老板，半推半就半勾半引的……
男人喜歡照顧無依無靠的女人，卻傷害有依有靠的身邊人。幸福不能分享，一分享就把友情和愛情給分掉了。
好朋友變成了第三者，朋友變成一輩子的仇人。如果搶人丈夫，還能如此享受遲來的幸福，那也是對自私和良知的看法不同，也許她覺得與道德無關，甚至對好友說：“你自己都管不好丈夫，怪我嗎？”
自從傳統的結構瓦解後，離婚不再是阻礙幸福的絆腳石，女人開始懂得為自己找出口，為理想也好，紅杏出牆也好，嫁給變態男人也好，突然想到早婚很笨，沒有玩夠就被家繩綁成粽子，不想受綁，覺得合不來，各走各路，女性可以很理直氣壯的就結束了婚姻，不會覺得頭低低。"
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